The Parenting Plan You Were Never Given.

Twelve guided sessions built on the S.H.I.F.T. Framework®, designed to help you become the spiritual leader your children need. Completely free.

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✓ Lead with Confidence

✓ Win at Home

Parenting Today is Harder Than Ever

Technology, social media, and screens are shaping your children faster than you can keep up.

Most parents were never handed a plan for building a Christ-centered home.

There is more parenting advice available than ever, and less clarity than ever.

The Winning Family Mentorship Gives You a Clear Path to Thriving at Home

Clarity

A proven, biblical roadmap for your family.

Confidence

Lead your home with wisdom instead of guesswork.

Connection

Strengthen your marriage and deepen bonds with your kids.

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What’s Included

Everything You Need to Start Winning at Home

01 ‣ 12 Weekly Video Lessons

12 weeks of powerful, life-giving mentorship with Rodney & Michelle Gage designed to strengthen your faith, transform your family, and help you start winning at home. Access anytime, at your own pace.

02 ‣ Practical Tools That Turn Inspiration Into Action

The digital Parenting Playbook, weekly action steps, and family assessments.

04 ‣ A Private Community

Walk it out alongside other parents building the same kind of home.

03 ‣ Live Monthly Coaching & Q&A

Join monthly live mentoring calls with Rodney & Michelle Gage for encouragement, practical insight, and real-time Q&A. You’ll connect with other parents on the same journey and experience the strength, hope, and clarity that come from growing—and winning—together.

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Individual Family Mentorship

A $199 Value. Yours Free.

Every session, every tool, every assessment.

No cost, no credit card, no catch.

Funded entirely by Mentor Makers who believe every parent deserves this.


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What You’ll Learn in the 12 Week Mentorship

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Foundations for a Winning Family

  • Discover the subtle ways today’s families are drifting off course—and the five key shifts that can move your home from chaos to clarity. You’ll uncover what’s at stake and how to lead your family with purpose in a culture pulling you the other way.

  • Learn how to stop repeating the mistakes of the past and start building a new legacy for the future. Rodney reveals the three essential steps to break free from unhealthy patterns and create a family story marked by faith, freedom, and intention.

  • Parenting doesn’t come with a manual—but it does come with a mission. In this session, you’ll discover the four stages of influence every parent must master to confidently guide your kids from dependence to destiny.

Shift in Direction

  • If you don’t define the win for your family, culture will do it for you. Rodney shares four powerful principles that help you clarify your vision, align your priorities, and start living today with eternity in mind.

Shift in Focus

  • Every family is led by something—either culture or conviction. Learn how to identify the five non-negotiable values that will anchor your home through life’s storms and keep your family centered on what truly matters most.

Shift in Motivation

  • In this inspiring session, you’ll learn a proven framework for setting spiritually aligned family goals across five key areas of life. Discover how to move from wishful thinking to intentional living—one goal at a time.

  • Your child’s design reveals their destiny. Michelle unpacks six insights that will help you understand your kids’ unique wiring and guide them toward the purpose God created them to fulfill.

  • What if your child’s greatest struggle could become their greatest strength? You’ll learn a powerful framework for helping your kids turn adversity into confidence, character, and calling.

Shift in Reinforcement

  • The people closest to your family will determine the direction of your family. Rodney reveals the four types of friends every child encounters—and how to surround your home with life-giving relationships that help everyone thrive.

Shift in Purpose

  • Your kids may not always do what you say—but they will become who you are. You’ll discover three key principles that make your example the most powerful influence in your child’s faith and future.

  • Every heart has love gauges—and when they run low, connection fades. Learn four simple ways to refill your family’s emotional tanks and create a home where love, grace, and joy overflow.

Sustaining the Win

  • Healthy families don’t drift—they realign. Rodney and Michelle share a five-step weekly rhythm that keeps your family connected, your values clear, and your vision alive for years to come.

A simple path to a peaceful, purpose-filled home

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Meet Your Mentors –Rodney & Michelle Gage

After more than 25 years of pastoring families, 34 years of marriage, and raising three adult children who love Jesus, Rodney and Michelle Gage have discovered what it truly takes to build a strong, faith-filled home in today’s world.

They understand the pressures parents face — balancing work, marriage, and raising kids in a culture that often pulls families apart — because they’ve walked that road themselves.

Whether you’re just beginning your parenting journey or looking to realign your family priorities, Rodney and Michelle’s heart is to come alongside you — not as teachers from a distance, but as mentors and parents you may have longed for or never had.

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What Real Parents Are Saying

  • “The Winning Family mentorship gave me a foundation for parenting and practical tools I still use today. It not only helped me stay focused as a mom but also connected me to my church community and lasting friendships.”

    — Melina
    Single mom of 2 teenage daughters

  • “Being part of The Winning Family Mentorship was truly life-changing for our family! After every meeting, my husband and I had meaningful conversations about our family’s goals and values. We realized we don’t want to live on autopilot or simply conform to the world—we want to live with intention and purpose, starting with our family.”

    — Richard & Mabel
    Parents of a preschooler

  • “It takes a well-thought-out plan and intentional living to leave a lasting legacy. The Winning Family Mentorship was instrumental in helping me both understand and establish a clear mission and vision for my family. Through the invaluable discussions and framework taught, I now parent with a greater sense of purpose and intention.”

    — Cindy
    Mom of 3 teenagers

  • “The Winning Family Mentorship helped us focus on what really matters—our relationship with God, each other, and serving others. It’s given us tools to thrive and the encouragement we needed while parenting three kids at different ages & stages.”

    — Brian & Olivia
    Parents of 3

  • “This mentorship helped us realign our priorities and live more intentionally as a family. Writing our family mission and vision was life-changing, and we now feel equipped to become the family we want to be.”

    – Maria & Omark
    Parents of a preschooler

  • “This mentorship gave us practical tools to strengthen our marriage and our parenting. As a young family, it helped us realign our priorities and walk with our children in the right direction, even in a chaotic world.”

    — Bri & James
    Young family

  • “Our children already are—or will be—facing challenges that we never faced growing up. Pastor Rodney and Michelle not only provided helpful resources but also invested their time mentoring us. They taught us to celebrate our children’s growth and to “build their brave.”

    — Dr. Cheryl Gulenay
    Parent of a newborn & preschooler

  • “The Winning Family Mentorship empowered us, but more importantly, it equipped us to create and lead our family with intentionality and purpose. The tools and accountability we gained have changed our family—and we believe will impact generations to come.”

    — Robert & Kylie
    Parents of 2 under 3

  • “The Winning Family Mentorship was such a great way to connect with other parents who are facing similar experiences. It reminded us to focus on what matters most—keeping Jesus at the center of our family. The accountability and fellowship we gained through this group meant everything to us and encouraged us in our parenting journey.”

    — Fabian & Lessenia
    Parents of elementary & middle school kids

  • “This class was absolutely amazing! I highly recommend it to all families eager to grow stronger together. I’m deeply thankful for the inspiring lessons from Pastor Rodney and Pastor Michelle, which guided our family to set God-driven goals and build a strong foundation of faith and core values.”

    — Aileen
    Parent of a middle school boy

  • “The Winning Family Mentorship course was absolutely outstanding and provided transformative insights for our parenting journey. It helped Ángel and me, as both leaders and parents, better understand how to raise Christian children under God’s Word and values while prioritizing both their unique needs (ages 11 to 22) and our own growth as parents.”

    — Angel & Marisol
    Parents of 4 (ages 11–22)

  • "We highly recommend The Winning Family Mentorship to any parent, no matter the age of your kids. We walked away with practical tools for navigating cultural pressures, friendships, emotions, and conflict—and we feel truly empowered to build a lasting, Christ-centered family legacy."

    – John & Tierra

  • "The Winning Family Mentorship was a true blessing. It brought our family together, helped us clarify what matters most, and strengthened our bonds. We now feel confident and equipped to raise faith-filled kids with a clear path forward."

    – Zack & Nikki

  • "The Winning Family Mentorship was truly life-giving for our family. We learned the importance of setting clear goals and creating a Christ-centered mission statement, which gave us direction, unity, and a renewed sense of purpose in our home. We walked away encouraged, deeply challenged, and more confident in leading our family with faith, intention, and love."

    – Dustin & Heather

Praise for The Winning Family

  • “Families today need hope and direction. The Winning Family book gives you a simple, 5-step plan to build a stronger home.”

    — Toby Mac
    Grammy Award-Winning Recording Artist

  • “Strong families aren’t built by chance—they’re built by choice. The Winning Family book shows you how.”

    — Pastor Ed & Lisa Young
    Fellowship Church, Grapevine, TX; NYT Best-Selling Authors

  • “Parents can’t give what they never received. The Winning Family equips them to disciple their kids with confidence.”

    — Shane Pruitt
    National Next Gen Director, NAMB

  • “Every winning team needs a game plan. The Winning Family book helps families win where it matters most—at home.”

    — Coach Lou Holtz
    Legendary Football Coach

  • “This book helps families define their vision and values. The Winning Family is a compass for today’s culture.”

    – John Luke & Mary Kate Robertson

    Duck Dynasty Stars

  • “I’ve seen these principles in action. The Winning Family helps parents anchor their homes against cultural drift.”

    — Layne Schranz
    VP, Highlands College
    Pikes Peak Hill Climb Racing Champion

  • “Strong families make strong leaders. The Winning Family is a playbook for parents who want to raise champions.”

    — Coach Denny Duron
    Legendary Coach, Evangel Christian Academy

  • “This book anchors families in faith and truth. The Winning Family is exactly what our culture needs right now.”

    — Josh McDowell
    Best Selling Author and Speaker

  • “Championship teams need teamwork—and so do families. The Winning Family shows you how to win together.”

    — Andy Pettitte
    5-Time World Series Champion and 3-Time All-Star

  • “To keep your family from drifting apart, you need a plan. The Winning Family book gives you one that works.”

    — David and Jason Benham
    Best-selling authors, nationally acclaimed entrepreneurs & speakers

  • “No family drifts into health by accident. The Winning Family shows parents how to create homes where kids thrive.”

    — Santiago “Jimmy” Mellado
    President & CEO, Compassion International

  • “It takes intention to keep your family strong. The Winning Family book gives you the tools to do it.”

    — Andi Andrew
    Author & Speaker

  • “Success starts at home. The Winning Family shows you five shifts to help your family win.”

    — Shawn Lovejoy
    Author & CEO, Courage to Lead

  • “Life gets busy fast. The Winning Family book helps you realign priorities and reclaim the heart of your home.”

    — David & Nicole Crank
    Senior Pastors, Faith Church

  • “Strong families are built on purpose, not by chance. The Winning Family book gives couples the plan to make it happen.”

    — Dr. Jack Graham
    Senior Pastor, Prestonwood Baptist Church

  • “Like a great recipe, a strong family needs the right ingredients. The Winning Family book is the recipe.”

    — John Rivers
    Chef & Owner, 4 Rivers Smokehouse

  • “A winning family takes work and love. The Winning Family book shows you how to grow stronger together.”

    — Dr. Dave Martin
    Pastor, Author & Success Coach
    Wisdom City Church, Troy MI

  • “In a distracted world, The Winning Family book keeps parents focused on what matters most.”

    — Bil & Jessica Cornelius
    Pastors, Church Unlimited

The Winning Family isn’t just another course or curriculum — it’s a movement of parents raising a generation of resilient kids who love Jesus and live to make an eternal impact.

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Private Family Mentoring

A personalized mentoring experience with Rodney and Michelle Gage designed to help your family gain clarity, wisdom, and a practical plan for your current season.

This is ideal for parents who want focused guidance, honest conversation, and personal support for marriage, parenting, family rhythms, spiritual leadership, or important family decisions.

Best for parents who want personal guidance and a customized plan.

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Frequently Asked Questions

  • The Winning Family Mentorship is a 12-week, biblically based journey designed to help you build a strong, faith-filled home where everyone thrives.

    Led by Rodney & Michelle Gage—pastors, parents, and founders of The Winning Family—this mentorship combines biblical wisdom, research-backed tools, and step-by-step guidance to strengthen your marriage, deepen your faith, and raise resilient kids who love Jesus.

  • For every kind of parent—married, single, or blended—ready to stop reacting and start leading with clarity and confidence.

    It’s designed for parents who feel overwhelmed or disconnected, couples who want to reconnect, blended or single parents seeking direction, and families who love God but feel stuck.

  • Parenting was never meant to be done alone. Mentoring gives you what every parent needs most—clarity, accountability, and encouragement.

    Unlike a one-time seminar, it offers real-life experience and biblical guidance you can apply immediately. It’s the Titus 2 model—one generation helping the next live with wisdom and purpose. Mentoring gives you more than information—it gives you hope, direction, and a clear next step.

  • Most programs give you inspiration without implementation. We give you both—through a clear framework (S.H.I.F.T.), repeatable tools, and personal guidance. It’s biblical and practical, designed for real families living in a real world.

    1. Online Mentorship (Self-Paced) – 12 video sessions + digital playbook + monthly group calls

    2. Group Experience – 12-week guided journey with a church offering the mentorship.

    3. 1-on-1 Mentoring with Rodney & Michelle – personalized coaching (by application)

  • About 60–90 minutes per week—short videos, reflections, and one simple action step. Busy week? Pause or pick up anytime.

    • 12 video sessions with Rodney & Michelle

    • Digital Playbook (worksheets + reflections)

    • Monthly Q&A group calls

    • Weekly action steps & family conversation guides

    • 1-year access to all materials

    • Stronger marriage or co-parenting partnership

    • Greater confidence in leading kids spiritually

    • More peace and connection at home

    • Renewed vision and hope for your family’s future

  • You are absolutely welcome here. We’ve mentored every type of family and seen God work beautifully in each story. No matter how your story started—God can still write a beautiful ending.

  • Start with you. Change always begins with one willing parent. Your example often inspires your spouse to join once they see the difference at home.

  • The Winning Family Mentorship isn’t a quick fix—it’s a foundation-building journey.

    As you begin applying the principles, you’ll start to notice subtle but meaningful shifts within the first few weeks—a calmer tone at home, more intentional conversations, and a renewed sense of focus as parents. But like any lasting growth, it takes time. True transformation happens as you keep sowing seeds of consistency, love, and faith over the full 12 weeks and beyond.

  • Yes — this is a biblically grounded, Christ-centered mentorship designed to help you build a home where faith shapes everything you do.

    Every principle, tool, and conversation is rooted in Scripture and focused on helping you apply God’s Word in everyday family life.

  • Online Mentorship (Self-Paced): Starting at $197

    • Group Mentorship: Varies by host site or church

    • 1-on-1 Mentoring with Rodney & Michelle: By Application Only

  • Absolutely — because this isn’t an expense. It’s a seed. A single counseling session can cost $150–$400 per hour. Parents routinely spend hundreds on sports, camps, and activities—investments that build skills or memories but fade over time.

    This mentorship builds something that lasts: a spiritual foundation, a strong marriage, and kids who walk in purpose. Every lesson you apply becomes a legacy you leave. The greatest return you’ll ever see is the one that shows up in your home.

    1. Choose your mentorship path (Online, Group, or 1-on-1)

    2. Purchase Your Pass to get instant access to your portal

    3. Begin your journey toward a confident, connected, faith-filled family

    You don’t need another quick fix—you need wisdom and a foundation that lasts. This is the most important investment you’ll ever make—for your marriage, your kids, and your legacy.

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Imagine Your Family Winning Where it Matters Most

Picture your home filled with joy, emotional security, honor, and faith. Your marriage healthy and strong. Your kids growing in confidence and character. Your home becoming the place everyone wants to be.

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